1- work out a lot
because exercise is scientifically proven to make you happier
2- work out a lot
because looking good will make you feel good.
3- eat healthy
because being healthy will make you feel good. If you’re obese lazy and unhealthy, you obviously won’t be on the same level of someone who has their shit together.
4- have a hobby and be good at it.
If you’re not good at it get good at it because being competitive and being good at shit will make you more confident
5- dress Well
because looking good will make you Feel good, if you walk into a room and you know, you’re the best-dressed person there even if you’re not the best looking girls are still going to check you out
6-never make a decision based on what other people think of you train yourself not to do this.
If you’re listening to the new Justin Bieber album in your car and someone pulls up next to you. Don’t reach to turn it down because you’re embarrassed just keep blasting that shit because you don’t give a fuck about anybody else’s opinions because confident people don’t sit around worrying about impressing others. We just do the shit that we want to do and if other people like it than And if they don’t like it, then that’s fine too.
7- watch guys who are confident and do some of the shit that they do like guys,
you know, our guys on TV shows or whatever because this will give you a feel for different things. It will let you try out new things and it will let you see how people respond to different types of things.
8- be successful
because being successful in life makes you feel like a boss because you are
9- do whatever the fuck you want.
Don’t try to avoid offending people be yourself. Now this doesn’t mean you should be a douchebag. Two people for no reason it just means you shouldn’t spend half your life walking on eggshells because you’re scared. You might possibly offend somebody you probably never see again. Anyway.
10- make friends
because a lot of people are social and they feel better when they have friends to talk to making friends is easy. Seriously. All you have to do is don’t be creepy.That’s it. That’s how you make friends in a nutshell
11- have a good relationship with your family
because having more positive people in your life makes you feel better and in turn more confident.
12- don’t argue on the internet
because only fucking preteen losers do that when you waste your time and don’t benefit from it. All you make yourself feel like a loser because you’re actually subconsciously telling yourself that your time isn’t very valuable and that you enjoy wasting it. Think about that for a second.
You think Elon Musk sits around on YouTube or read it all day calling people fags and telling them to kill themselves.
Yeah, right. You think Brad Pitt is sitting there at night like hold up Angelina. I can’t go out with you tonight because I have to Convinced a guy on YouTube that I’m right and he’s wrong. I don’t think so. You don’t have an unlimited amount of time unless you’re fucking in mortal and if you are then DM me ASAP, but if you’re not you have a limited amount of time that’s where the phrase spend time comes from. Every time you choose to do something you’re choosing how to spend your time. If you choose to spend it on stupid shit, like driving slow as fuck or sitting on Facebook for six hours a day. Then you’re telling yourself that it’s alright to waste time because it wasn’t worth that much anyway, and by telling yourself Your time isn’t worth much. You’re basically telling yourself that you’re a loser obviously telling yourself. You’re a loser on a daily basis isn’t good for your confidence
13- have goals
because being ambitious and having a purpose in life makes you feel good
14- get up as soon as you wake up because sitting around and being tired and lazy all day actually does reduce happiness and confidence .
15 – get a decent amount of sleep every night
because like I just said sitting around and being tired and lazy all day actually does reduce happiness and confidence.
16– don’t make excuses.
Here’s the thing. A lot of people watching. This video right now are probably already tempted to leave a comment like but I can’t use these tips because blah blah blah shut the fuck up. No one gives a God damn about your excuses. Just figure out what you want to do and do it because when you make excuses, you’re telling yourself that you’re not in control of your own life, which is an extremely negative mindset that happens to lead to unhappiness. If you want to do something shut the fuck up and do it.
17- Get rid of negative people in your life
because just being around negative people is scientifically proven to create negativity in you as well.
18- watch funny TV shows
funny movies are funny YouTube videos or read funny books every now and then because actually laughing makes you a happier proven fact.
19. Don’t make a big deal about bullshit if you play football and someone says put the fucking sucks ignore it because getting offended by someone you don’t even know shows that you’re not confident enough in yourself to be above that kind of – it actually getting offended at all as childish because nobody fucking cares stop playing the victim and get out and do something number 20 control your life. If you want something to happen make it happen. If you’re one of those people who thinks they have no control over their own actions and that shit just happens cut it out stuff happens because people make it happen. The universe isn’t out to get you instead of being jealous about someone else’s success make yourself successful to control your life number 21 take Asks, because playing it safe is the shortcut to failure taking risks, even if you fail makes you feel good about yourself because you actually tried and you’re giving yourself the potential to succeed.
Whereas someone who doesn’t do jack shit doesn’t even have a chance number 22 work out a lot because not being scared of getting your ass kicked anytime. Someone doesn’t like you will make you feel more confident.
And yeah, I know being athletic doesn’t make you a good fighter and all that blah blah blah. There’s always a guy who’s taking like one class a karate and he’s like I know how to fight. So it doesn’t matter if you have muscles, but guess what nobody in real life fucking knows how to fight. How many drunk people at the bar. Do you think are professional fighters? Give me a break if the guy you’re fighting is equally bad at fighting as you are then whoever stronger and faster is probably going to win number 23, if you’re in school and someone bullies you beat the shit out of them or tell on them are plant some weed in their locker and anonymously report them are hack into their computer and plant some child porn. And yeah, maybe not that but you get the point don’t let people walk all over you because choosing to be a pushover. We’ll just deplete your confidence.
One of my favorite philosophers.
Machiavelli said be nice to people who are nice to you. But if someone fucks with you fuck with them 1,000 times worse.
Yeah, I think it was Machiavelli.
Maybe it was Donald Trump. I don’t remember number 24 have standards.
Don’t just take what you can get because taking what you can get implies and she can’t get anything good which implies that you’re a loser. Are you a loser?
No, then cut that shit out number 25 don’t be negative because no one likes negative people and you won’t have any friends number 26 use common sense and make your own decisions. Don’t go on Reddit. Ask basic. Ask questions.
Don’t ask for permission to ask some girl you like out if you’re not sure what to do just pick something and do it. Even if you fuck up at least you tried and you learn from it because learning from your mistakes is something you have to do to be successful in anything.
If you try 10 different things, even if you’re only successful 20% of the time guess what you’re still more successful in the other guy who’s sitting around doing nothing because he’s too scared to try.
Number 27 don’t complain because talking about negative things makes you- it makes you less happy and in turn less confident and you give yourself the impression that you can’t control things. If you’ve been following all this advice you shouldn’t need to complain about anything because if you don’t like something just change it number 28 be positive.
Here’s a positive outlook in life. Just because your sophomore year in high school sucked doesn’t mean that the rest of your life will suck. As long as you keep trying to reach your goals. You’ll eventually reach them 29.
Be confident in yourself realize that confidence has nothing to do with how many people like you or how many parties you go to or how much money you make or how hot your girlfriend is being confident is about you and it has nothing to do with anyone else nor is it even affected by anybody else? It’s all you baby number 30 when in doubt just think what would based Zeus do and then do that bonus tip subscribe to my channel because I’m confident as fuck. And listening to me will make you more confident by extension.